We're separated

The NY Times profiles couples who separate for extended periods of time, rather than divorcing.

It's commonly due to financial reasons. Plus, many couples simply don't want to deal with the legal process that surrounds divorce.

I understand the point of view, especially given today's economy.

However, it seems like separation can become a way of having many of marriage's conveniences without any of its drawbacks.

The aforementioned article cites couples who sign holiday cards together and share finances...they just don't live together or have an emotional relationship.

In addition, separation might be a setup where one partner sustains a false hope in resuscitating the relationship.

The legal process can be draining and tedious -- but it also often brings a much-needed sense of finality to your romance's demise.

But what do I know? I'm not married.