sloppy seconds

This guy was recently suspended from the National Hockey League after calling an ex "sloppy seconds" while talking to reporters.

Today, the AJC's dating blog, Misadventures in Atlanta, asks readers their thoughts on talking trash about someone post-breakup.

It's a good debate, one I had when a friend more or less publicly revealed that an ex had a serious drug problem.

Certain things don't deserve to be aired in public, no matter how bad the breakup was.

Still, if you're forced to tolerate a negative behavior for an extended period of time, and someone totally plays with your feelings...why should you have to remain mum?

Thoughts?