best friends

Should your significant other double as your best friend?

DearSugar asks that question after referring readers to this comment John Gray (of "Mars and Venus" fame) gave in a recent issue of Real Simple:

"I have no problem with partners who are best friends, but you should have other close friends to confide in as well — especially when you are having difficulties and need time away from your spouse. Don't put all your eggs in one basket."

I'd guess women would be way more inclined to call their partner their best friend. Despite the "Sex and the City" influence, there's often something inherently distrusting about female friendships.

When you find a guy you trust, he may seem like a safe haven for both love and friendship.

Should "boyfriend" -- or even "husband" -- and "best friend" be one in the same?