Wednesday, March 24, 2010

Predicting divorce

"They'll never make it."

You utter the sentence confidently...and then watch the couple get married, have kids, and celebrate relationship bliss.

Unlike Oscar wins and "American Idol" results, I think I'm pretty good at predicting a romance's life span.

But occasionally, there's that wild card -- the couple who strangely manages to survive and thrive, despite initially having all the odds stacked against them.

Here's an interesting article from Slate about a marriage researcher's attempt to predict divorce based on how a newlywed couple fights. The prediction seems nearly impossible, but some people still say it can be done.

Weigh in: How do your natural instincts fare in predicting a couple's success?

(With her wedding on the horizon, my colleague Katie Holland has already vowed she'll never get divorced. Read more here.)