to gift or not to gift

Do guys deserve Valentine's Day gifts, too?

The general consensus seems to be "yes," although I have many female friends who have never given a boyfriend something on Feb. 14.

That school of thought comes mainly from girls who think it's just THEIR day to be pampered. Some women, however, avoid Valentine's Day gift-giving for another reason:

Guys are hard to shop for.

Here, relationship gurus Em & Lo get guys' thoughts on what they'd like for Valentine's Day. Some of the items are good, although I have a hunch that the guy who recommended couples' cooking classes is desperately seeking brownie points.

But read on...and remember that there's still time to snag something special.

(Side note: I recently blogged about being hesitant to get a guy a spa gift certificate, but this article about U.S. soldiers getting pedicures in Iraq makes me think differently.)