the monday moan

Today's question is inspired in part by loyal reader Mimi, who last week questioned my decision to decline a guy's request to buy me a drink in exchange for conversation.

I did so out of caution, because I knew I didn't want to get involved romantically with him. And, I figured even if I left after a 20-minute conversation, he'd still perceive me as a tease.

Which brings me to this week's inquiry:

What's your policy on accepting free drinks? Will you do so even if you have a significant other? And if so, when do you tell your benefactor that you're taken?

Discuss. Now.