we'll see...

Thanks for the awesome Backstreet Boys comment, Erin!

This week's column is about party cameos. You know, those parties you don't necessarily look forward to in advance. Or at all.

But you're obligated to attend, because you either:

a. Know the person really well
b. Owe the host/hostess a favor
c. Made an ill-advised promise
d. Desperately want free food

Either way, all these scenarios bring to mind the idea of the party cameo, a quick appearance that fulfills your obligation to the host/hostess and produces the illusion you're having tons and tons of fun.

By now I like to think I've mastered the art of the nightlife cameo, but certain situations and schedules can even throw experts off guard. It's a challenge, so think twice before sending back your next RSVP with a hesitant "we'll see."