Romantic action plans

You endure the pain of a breakup, and then reluctantly change your online relationship status to "single."

Minutes later, the e-mails arrive like moths to a flame. Your inbox is flooded with messages from suitors who, you know, just want to say hi.

What's the appropriate time frame for making a move once you learn your crush is finally single?

Naturally, the answer depends on what you'd like out of the relationship. A booty call? Go ahead, make a move now.

If looking for something a little more serious, evaluate your action plan carefully. Pursue things too quickly and you might fall into a relationship that's immediately dominated by romantic baggage.

The early stages of dating are supposed to be blissful, and nothing kills that bliss more than spending your first few dinner dates discussing a psycho ex.

By all means, guys, test the waters the second you see her relationship status change. But only if you're willing to be someone's exercise in romantic rehab.

Thoughts?